Friday, March 19, 2010

One Of Life's Many Unanswered Questions

Why is it that those who are worthless as parents are given the blessing of children....yet those who would dearly love them and would be great parents are left without? It's just so frustrating & unfair!!!!!

7 comments:

Blessed Beyond said...

(((HUGS))) I really do feel your pain, I was there! And I hate to see anyone have to feel this way!! I'm always here for you! It is the most unfair part of our life, I believe. Hugs, love, and prayers.

Mary at Deep South Dish said...

Isn't that the truth!! It's frustrating to say the least.

Carrie of Farming On Faith said...

I have had this same thought myself. We must just believe that an All Knowing Father sees the whole picture!
I sometimes say ~"I believe~help my un-belief."

Patty said...

My sister-in-law dealt with this. It is one of those hard to understand things. God sees, He knows, and He cares for all ~ especially His own.

Anonymous said...

Dear One, I read your question about children. It may be the worst pain on earth to want a child and not have one, unless the very worst pain is to have one and lose him. I can only say that this life is not Heaven. It is filled with pain and sorrow, questions and doubts, trials and victory. May I ask you to give God your heart's desire to have children and then ask Him if He has a child out there for you who needs a loving mom. A prayer that God will always answer is when we pray, "Lord, show me your will for my life. Place me in the very center of your will. Please help me to be willing to accept your will as the very best thing for my life." When you pray this from your heart, God will begin to open His doors for your life and one day, you will see that God loves you and He knows best. That is trust. Blessings & Comfort, Beverly

Conny said...

I too feel your pain & want to ask God (if He'll let me & if it still matters when we all get to heaven) why He allows this ... Poor innocent children placed into this world with parents who are worthless & sometimes don't even want them :( I have many married friends who deal with infertility (as we did for a while - but God was gracious) - and they ask the same.... The only thing I know to say is TRUST HIM.

Mrs. B, a very peculiar person said...

Hi Mrs. M,

This world we live in is not the world God originally created. No, it has be perversed by sin. Often times the most perverse of this sin are the injustices toward children that we hear about, read about or, so very sadly, sometimes encounter personally.
No, it does not seem fair. But, because we, as humans, live in a fallen and sinful state we often times find ourselves enduring the most unfair situations.
I pray the Lord will bring you comfort and peace as you walk the path He has planned for your and your family's lives.
Mrs.B